Well, hello everyone. Hope you've all had a good start to 2008. My mother finally went back to Spain after staying for a month!, and yes I have put on weight. I need to start exercising again - new year resolution!
One of the reasons that she stayed so long was because of my brother. After 12 years of marriage he has walked out on his wife! None of us saw it coming and he was always seen as the 'sensible one'. My poor sister-in-law is of course devastated and my mother wanted to get to the bottom of it before she left.
It seems that he'd been unhappy a long time and suffering from depression. He has had a few flings and although he's not left to be with anyone specific, it may have been a factor. He said that he and his wife just didn't have sex.
I guess that commitment thing has always scared me and that's one of the reasons - just how do you keep the sex alive after a few years?
skyla777
commitment is such a statement in itself. people fear it because it means something. you cant just through away the word commitment. you have to work at it. like a garden....you have to tend to it so the weeds dont set in. as for sex, each time is like a different story. sometimes it is funny, sometimes it is sad and sometimes it is mind blowing. the point is, to remember why you do it. you are sharing the most intimate, beautiful part of yourself with someone else! what greater gift! i think most people take it for granted after a couple of years. but as long as you are always grateful that the person you love wants to share this personal story with you, you can never get bored. eye contact is the biggest turn on there is. when somone bares into your soul whilst they are with you in that moment, you dont need anything else.
no one should fear commitment, companionship or monogamy....it is the most rewarding job,relationship house and child you will ever have.
ive been with my husband for 7 years and not a day goes by when i think i could be without him.do it! be committed to somone....make it your new years resolution!!!!!
as for your bro...he'll find it again and when he does, it will mean so much more!