commitment is such a statement in itself. people fear it because it means something. you cant just through away the word commitment. you have to work at it. like a garden....you have to tend to it so the weeds dont set in. as for sex, each time is like a different story. sometimes it is funny, sometimes it is sad and sometimes it is mind blowing. the point is, to remember why you do it. you are sharing the most intimate, beautiful part of yourself with someone else! what greater gift! i think most people take it for granted after a couple of years. but as long as you are always grateful that the person you love wants to share this personal story with you, you can never get bored. eye contact is the biggest turn on there is. when somone bares into your soul whilst they are with you in that moment, you dont need anything else.
no one should fear commitment, companionship or monogamy....it is the most rewarding job,relationship house and child you will ever have.
ive been with my husband for 7 years and not a day goes by when i think i could be without him.do it! be committed to somone....make it your new years resolution!!!!!
as for your bro...he'll find it again and when he does, it will mean so much more!

It can be so hard to find the right person.
I've made a few big mistakes, tried my best to make a go of the relationship, but wished I'd been braver and ended it earlier for everyone's sake.
It's taken me a long time, but I'm finally with my perfect partner - third time lucky, in my case.

Important to just be yourself and not try to be someone else...

Good luck!

Hi Luis,

Sorry to hear about your brother - your poor mama must be going mad - now she's got two single sons to fix up!

Commitment is a difficult thing, especially if you've been hurt before. I give my boyfriend a really hard time and sometimes I think I'm testing his love. He hangs on in there and puts up with me, which makes me think that I'm really with the right person. I feel so sad when we're apart.

I really hope you find something magical and special this year Luis. I think you're gorgeous and you'll have lots of willing ladies queuing at your door.

XXxx